Email from The Embassy's Donna, who's practically my neighbor (blogging out of Amman) gave me the coolest idea, which she swiped from somewhere else off the blogosphere. Top 12 moments of 2012. I've had major writer's block for the past few weeks (I hate to admit it, but I'm still sulking over my recent arthritis diagnosis), so I've decided that I will grab her idea and use it.
I don't know that I'd classify these as the TOP 12 (because they are NOT all awesome and happy) - but I think I would say they were 12 very influential moments in our household in 2012. So here goes...
12) We spent the beginning of 2012 enjoying Luxor. Puking our guts out the entire week preceding our journey, we all somehow managed to not only pull it together to fly, but to actually enjoy our trip to see the temples of Luxor and Karnak. Karnak was my favorite site we've visited in Egypt.
11) Running and I went head-to-head in March. I threatened to give it up entirely. The fab hubby was ever so fabulous and told me I was stupid for even thinking I should do so. I *heart* him. He was (of course) right, so I signed up for...
10) A MARATHON! Go big or go home, right? Well, in my case, this meant leaving home (Cairo) and going to San Francisco for a long weekend and the Nike Women's Marathon. And it was awesome. I'm so proud to have (finally) checked this off my list. I first thought about doing a marathon way back in 2009 when we lived in L.A. Some dreams take years to fulfill, and this was definitely one of them.
9) We had a awesome R&R in the U.S., visiting Florida for the kiddos, and Ohio to see our families. Abby lost her iPad in London's Heathrow Airport on the way to the U.S., but a very kind stranger found it and gave it to lost and found at Heathrow. We actually got it back in time before we returned to Cairo! Random acts of kindness like this always restore my faith in humanity.
8) I learned how monstrously awful UNITED AIRLINES can be to its travelers. And I will never forgive them. They lost our luggage not once but twice, and lied to us about sending it back to us. They cancelled/changed/delayed five (that's right --- FIVE) of our seven flights and attempted to rebook one of those flights two days later at 11:00PM, effectively leaving us stranded in Dulles Airport. I cried. And just when I thought it couldn't get worse, they canceled our tickets back to Cairo without telling us. Yes, I'm bitter. Yes, I cried again. And, oh, as an update it took them FOUR MONTHS to reimburse us a lousy $200 for the items I had to buy while we waited for them to track down our lost luggage. Do not fly UNITED AIRLINES.
7) The fab hubby and I had an amazing time atprom the Marine Ball this year (it was our 2nd Ball) AND we survived bidding season! The day before the Ball, Jason accepted a handshake to D.C. for summer 2013. Bring on the Starbucks.
6) Abby turned seven, Owen turned nine, and Kellen turned two. And sometimes, all three of them make me feel older than I really am. Blink and they are no longer babies. Blink again and they are no longer toddlers. Everyone says it because it is so true - time flies. Kids grow way too fast.
5) I had the opportunity to go to Bangkok for the State Department this year, as part of the annual nurse continuing education conference. It was amazing! Especially since the only other country I've ever been to outside of the U.S. is Egypt. I had an awesome week meeting nurses from other embassies and I got to explore Bangkok a bit as well.
4) My Army Reserve career continues to flourish. I performed well on my annual physical test (PT), acing the run (of course), and survived the sit-ups (barely) and push-ups testing. In August, I completed my yearly required Annual Training in Ft. Carson, Colorado. I work there every year in the Emergency Department at Evans Army Community Hospital and I love it. And in October, just one week after finishing my marathon, I found out I was promoted to Captain!
3) I've struggled the past few months, dealing with a new diagnosis of arthritis. In fact, I only blogged once in December - and it was about my arthritis. I'm still learning how to cope. Mostly right now, I'm angry and hurt and I'm still working through the emotions. It's most likely rheumatoid arthritis, but while my physical symptoms are consistent with the diagnosis, my lab work is not. I'll be seeing a specialist soon (more info to follow on this - keep reading), so I'm hoping to get a more definitive answer.
2) September 11, 2012. Benghazi. Khartoum. Sanaa. Tunis. How do you describe the heartache all of the Foreign Service feels? The anger. The sadness. The fear. For us, it was incredibly personal, as our embassy here in Cairo was also attacked. It's hard to feel safe when your walls have been breached. It's hard to get back to "normal", wondering if it will happen again.
1) And now for some new news, that which was decided in 2012, but I haven't yet blogged about.
In February, I'll be doing a 6-month "TDY" in Los Angeles, California. The fab hubby and the kids will finish out the assignment here in Cairo, and we'll all catch back up together in August in Virginia (where we'll be living for at least two years).
Here's the thing(s). My ER RN certifications are expiring in April (that's right, a mere four months) and I can't renew them in Egypt. If I don't renew them, then I can't work ER. And those of you who know me, know I LOVE working in the ER. It's my career 'home.' It's where I always return. I started as a new grad in trauma, and I always miss it when I'm gone from it. Now, I absolutely LOVE working for the embassy Health Unit, too! But if I don't get there certifications re-certified, I flat-out can't work ER when we return to the U.S. (at least until I get new certifications - which is a huge pain in the tuckus, of course).
And yes, it was incredibly hard to make this choice but there were other things involved in this decision, like...
My arthritis (see, I said I'd get back to this topic). I need a specialist and I need follow-ups and more follow-ups. It's not likely to be a quick fix. And I can't get it taken care of in Cairo. I considered a medevac as an alternative option, but a medevac is short and may not give me all the follow-up I need. My left hand already has a permanent deformity and I don't want there to be any more. I'm not taking any chances. Plus...
My required Army Reserves Annual Training has to be completed no later than October 1, 2013. And while I could possibly squeak it in there sometime in August or September, we would be full-on-crazy-in-the-middle-of-a-move-back-from-Cairo. Not to mention both the fab hubby and I would be starting new jobs during this time frame. AND the kids would be starting a new school. Planning a trip to Colorado to complete my Army training is the crazy icing on a crazy cake during August/September. Nope. It would be near impossible to do if I waited to return to the U.S. in August.
For months, I'd been receiving recruiter emails to work a travel nursing contract. And I once was a travel nurse (2008 - I went to Bakersfield, CA on a ER contract assignment), and I loved it. So why not consider it? The contracts are good in the ER, the timing is perfect, and it gets me back to the U.S. to accomplish all the above items I need to do before we arrive in Virginia in August. Arthritis specialist. Annual military training. ER re-certifications.
Is it hard to leave my kids and hubby for six months? Dude. Don't even ask that question. Because yes! Yes, it is. Will my heart ache while I'm missing them? Yes. Will I cry? Yes. But is it best for our family? YES. And that is what ultimately drives me (well, actually US) to do it.
How many of us have lived through our spouse doing a TDY for their job, whether 90 days, 6 months, or a full year in AIP (Afghanistan/Iraq/Pakistan)?! It's done all the time. (And don't forget - we've actually done it. The hubby was in Baghdad for a year 2010-2011.) This is just, well, slightly different in that I'm not going someplace crappy for 6 months. Really, if you ask me, the fab hubby has the very short end of this stick - he's going to end up doing pack-out all by himself AND flying solo from Cairo to the U.S. with three kids. Not to mention the six months of solo-parenting he'll be doing. Ouch. He's going to have tough job. Truly, tougher than mine.
But wouldn't you know it, he's on-board with it 100%. Because we both sat down and talked about it and realized this is what's best for our family. August will be here soon enough, and we'll be back together as a family, just like we belong.
So there you have it, folks. 2012 in nutshell for us. Some of it was bad, some of it was good, and some of it was a mix of both. Just like every other year, huh? So welcome, 2013. We're looking forward to a new year. Lots of changes for us are coming up, but we are ready for them.
10) A MARATHON! Go big or go home, right? Well, in my case, this meant leaving home (Cairo) and going to San Francisco for a long weekend and the Nike Women's Marathon. And it was awesome. I'm so proud to have (finally) checked this off my list. I first thought about doing a marathon way back in 2009 when we lived in L.A. Some dreams take years to fulfill, and this was definitely one of them.
9) We had a awesome R&R in the U.S., visiting Florida for the kiddos, and Ohio to see our families. Abby lost her iPad in London's Heathrow Airport on the way to the U.S., but a very kind stranger found it and gave it to lost and found at Heathrow. We actually got it back in time before we returned to Cairo! Random acts of kindness like this always restore my faith in humanity.
8) I learned how monstrously awful UNITED AIRLINES can be to its travelers. And I will never forgive them. They lost our luggage not once but twice, and lied to us about sending it back to us. They cancelled/changed/delayed five (that's right --- FIVE) of our seven flights and attempted to rebook one of those flights two days later at 11:00PM, effectively leaving us stranded in Dulles Airport. I cried. And just when I thought it couldn't get worse, they canceled our tickets back to Cairo without telling us. Yes, I'm bitter. Yes, I cried again. And, oh, as an update it took them FOUR MONTHS to reimburse us a lousy $200 for the items I had to buy while we waited for them to track down our lost luggage. Do not fly UNITED AIRLINES.
7) The fab hubby and I had an amazing time at
6) Abby turned seven, Owen turned nine, and Kellen turned two. And sometimes, all three of them make me feel older than I really am. Blink and they are no longer babies. Blink again and they are no longer toddlers. Everyone says it because it is so true - time flies. Kids grow way too fast.
5) I had the opportunity to go to Bangkok for the State Department this year, as part of the annual nurse continuing education conference. It was amazing! Especially since the only other country I've ever been to outside of the U.S. is Egypt. I had an awesome week meeting nurses from other embassies and I got to explore Bangkok a bit as well.
4) My Army Reserve career continues to flourish. I performed well on my annual physical test (PT), acing the run (of course), and survived the sit-ups (barely) and push-ups testing. In August, I completed my yearly required Annual Training in Ft. Carson, Colorado. I work there every year in the Emergency Department at Evans Army Community Hospital and I love it. And in October, just one week after finishing my marathon, I found out I was promoted to Captain!
3) I've struggled the past few months, dealing with a new diagnosis of arthritis. In fact, I only blogged once in December - and it was about my arthritis. I'm still learning how to cope. Mostly right now, I'm angry and hurt and I'm still working through the emotions. It's most likely rheumatoid arthritis, but while my physical symptoms are consistent with the diagnosis, my lab work is not. I'll be seeing a specialist soon (more info to follow on this - keep reading), so I'm hoping to get a more definitive answer.
2) September 11, 2012. Benghazi. Khartoum. Sanaa. Tunis. How do you describe the heartache all of the Foreign Service feels? The anger. The sadness. The fear. For us, it was incredibly personal, as our embassy here in Cairo was also attacked. It's hard to feel safe when your walls have been breached. It's hard to get back to "normal", wondering if it will happen again.
1) And now for some new news, that which was decided in 2012, but I haven't yet blogged about.
In February, I'll be doing a 6-month "TDY" in Los Angeles, California. The fab hubby and the kids will finish out the assignment here in Cairo, and we'll all catch back up together in August in Virginia (where we'll be living for at least two years).
Here's the thing(s). My ER RN certifications are expiring in April (that's right, a mere four months) and I can't renew them in Egypt. If I don't renew them, then I can't work ER. And those of you who know me, know I LOVE working in the ER. It's my career 'home.' It's where I always return. I started as a new grad in trauma, and I always miss it when I'm gone from it. Now, I absolutely LOVE working for the embassy Health Unit, too! But if I don't get there certifications re-certified, I flat-out can't work ER when we return to the U.S. (at least until I get new certifications - which is a huge pain in the tuckus, of course).
And yes, it was incredibly hard to make this choice but there were other things involved in this decision, like...
My arthritis (see, I said I'd get back to this topic). I need a specialist and I need follow-ups and more follow-ups. It's not likely to be a quick fix. And I can't get it taken care of in Cairo. I considered a medevac as an alternative option, but a medevac is short and may not give me all the follow-up I need. My left hand already has a permanent deformity and I don't want there to be any more. I'm not taking any chances. Plus...
My required Army Reserves Annual Training has to be completed no later than October 1, 2013. And while I could possibly squeak it in there sometime in August or September, we would be full-on-crazy-in-the-middle-of-a-move-back-from-Cairo. Not to mention both the fab hubby and I would be starting new jobs during this time frame. AND the kids would be starting a new school. Planning a trip to Colorado to complete my Army training is the crazy icing on a crazy cake during August/September. Nope. It would be near impossible to do if I waited to return to the U.S. in August.
For months, I'd been receiving recruiter emails to work a travel nursing contract. And I once was a travel nurse (2008 - I went to Bakersfield, CA on a ER contract assignment), and I loved it. So why not consider it? The contracts are good in the ER, the timing is perfect, and it gets me back to the U.S. to accomplish all the above items I need to do before we arrive in Virginia in August. Arthritis specialist. Annual military training. ER re-certifications.
Is it hard to leave my kids and hubby for six months? Dude. Don't even ask that question. Because yes! Yes, it is. Will my heart ache while I'm missing them? Yes. Will I cry? Yes. But is it best for our family? YES. And that is what ultimately drives me (well, actually US) to do it.
How many of us have lived through our spouse doing a TDY for their job, whether 90 days, 6 months, or a full year in AIP (Afghanistan/Iraq/Pakistan)?! It's done all the time. (And don't forget - we've actually done it. The hubby was in Baghdad for a year 2010-2011.) This is just, well, slightly different in that I'm not going someplace crappy for 6 months. Really, if you ask me, the fab hubby has the very short end of this stick - he's going to end up doing pack-out all by himself AND flying solo from Cairo to the U.S. with three kids. Not to mention the six months of solo-parenting he'll be doing. Ouch. He's going to have tough job. Truly, tougher than mine.
But wouldn't you know it, he's on-board with it 100%. Because we both sat down and talked about it and realized this is what's best for our family. August will be here soon enough, and we'll be back together as a family, just like we belong.
So there you have it, folks. 2012 in nutshell for us. Some of it was bad, some of it was good, and some of it was a mix of both. Just like every other year, huh? So welcome, 2013. We're looking forward to a new year. Lots of changes for us are coming up, but we are ready for them.
Wowie, what a rough decision you had to make. It will definitely be hard, but it truly sounds like the best thing for your family in the long run.
ReplyDeleteWow, that is a hard choice. But one thing I have learned in this life, only you can know what is best for you and your family. I hope the time flys for your family.
ReplyDeleteSounds like a tough choice was made, and good for you all for making it happen. Am expecting to see lots of photos of lattes on your FB page so I can live vicariously through you!
ReplyDeleteWhat a crazy, hard decision! It sounds like the best choice to make for you and for your family.
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